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- Video Hamlet by William Shakespeare Act 3 Scene 1 ‖ Tom Hiddleston ‖ The Dragon Book of Verse
- Stop being nice to her all the time
- Stop "cling" to her and show your jealousy
- Reasons for the feeling of presence
- Stop agreeing with her all the time
- The weakest link
- Stop being pessimistic all the time
- Diagnostics of the energy field of the performer
- Video Roses are Red (Craig) DRAMATIC MONOLOGUE
- Stop dropping it all the time
- Video Timothée Chalamet - "Miss Stevens" award winning monologue
Video Hamlet by William Shakespeare Act 3 Scene 1 ‖ Tom Hiddleston ‖ The Dragon Book of Verse
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You probably already know that most people decide to end a relationship because they have lost their feelings of attraction to each other. In some cases, it can disappear in a few weeks, sometimes it can take years. But it doesn't matter how long it took for a woman to lose that spark, it's important to know why it happened.
That is why today we will discuss six things that can completely destroy a woman's attraction to you. In this way, you can adjust your behavior towards your ex or another girl you may meet in the future.
So, when it comes to losing attraction, there are a few principles that you should remember and follow.
Stop being nice to her all the time
When you meet a girl for the first time and act "too cute" it can turn her off. Naturally, you need to open the door for her or act chivalrous when necessary, but this does not mean that you should constantly shower her with gifts, compliment all the time and do everything possible to make her smile.
Women are simply disgusted by this behavior, and the fact that you have been together for a long time does not change anything. The fact that you fawn over her clearly does not add sexuality to you in her eyes and makes her look for a man who can stand up for herself.
But why? Girls love attention..
Remember, women are attracted to men, not sissy losers, so start acting like real men! There are certain traits that act like magnets on girls, and believe me, there is definitely no ingratiating behavior among them. Here is a small list of male features that will make you attractive in the eyes of a girl. Check if you need to correct yourself a little to find a girl?
Stop "cling" to her and show your jealousy
Even very confident men can act "sticky" if they feel like they're not up to the level of the woman they're dating. But you must avoid this trap. Just because you think your wife or girlfriend is just "top class" doesn't mean you have to act like a jerk every time she wants to leave the house or meets her male friends.
Even if she says she finds your jealous behavior "cute", don't fall for it. She will eventually get tired of it. Give her time and space "for herself" and she will come back again and again.
Why?
Because, being jealous, you will convince her that she has some kind of superiority over you, which means that she will soon stop appreciating you at all. And this is already a direct path to treason, because she will not be interested in the one who runs after her like a dog. Better take care of yourself to look worthy and desirable in her eyes. Believe me, this is not just a method to keep a woman, it is also one of the most effective ways to prevent cheating. By the way, you can read more about such secrets here to know how to put yourself first for her and so that she does not even look towards others.
Reasons for the feeling of presence
But what about when you are alone at home and you feel like the "evil eye" is looking at you from another corner of the room?
Psychologically, the sensation of an unknown presence is an illusory perception of one's own body with well-defined characteristics, which is associated with sensorimotor damage and is caused by lesions in three specific areas of the brain: the temporal dorsal, insular, and especially the frontofacial cortex.
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In other words, the feeling that someone is looking at you or is near you when you are alone is a psychological misperception and a reflection of the actions of your own body. Usually the human body is able to distinguish itself from other people, but sometimes it can make mistakes. In a way, you are the same ghost whose presence you feel.
Stop agreeing with her all the time
Again, tail wagging is unlikely to be attractive to women. If you think some behavior of your girlfriend is unacceptable, just tell her about it. Do not obey and do not indulge her every whim.
You are a person with your own moral principles, you must make sure that she knows when to stop, that she does not cross the line. So next time she starts talking for an hour about her ex-boyfriend, just cut her off. Don't let her whine and complain to you as if you were her girlfriend. Be her boyfriend and politely let her know you don't approve of this behavior. When the passions subside, she will respect you more and find you even more attractive. So everyone wins.
Why?
Because women highly value leadership qualities in men, their point of view. No girl wants to be with someone who can't put others in their place if they don't agree with something. That is, you must be yourself and remember your own interests, and not run after her everywhere and obey her in everything (as well as others). If you do not agree with any of her suggestions, claims or behavior, you need to say so. No one says that you need to beat your fist on the table and consider yourself right in everything, but again, you need to be a man with your own convictions and principles. This is important not only for new, but also for already long-term relationships, because for this you will be respected. And this is one of the best ways to keep a girl, even if she returned to you after a breakup. And you can find out more about them here.
The weakest link
“Sometimes it’s hard for me to ask even random passers-by for a favor — to clarify the way to the subway, the right bus stop. If I still decide to ask a question, I feel how a person carefully considers me, evaluates - and I tense up because of this, ”admits Elena (28). Sometimes these feelings can cause a lack of attention. Often independent girls suffer from this problem. You do everything yourself, without help you solve any issues. As a result, others begin to mistakenly believe that their support is completely useless to you. But you want attention so much that you subconsciously begin to convince yourself of the opposite: no, they are still interested in me. Let not close, but completely strangers. “It is paradoxical: having calmed his pride with fictitious views, a person begins to suffer from them. Because, despite the desire to receive attention, he is not used to it, ”explains the psychologist Petr Kravchenko.
The reason for the lack of simple human warmth may be the attitude that the attention of others is not a vital necessity, but an excess. Such people never allow themselves to express their emotions clearly in front of others. It seems to them that tears or stormy joy will condemn everyone, or it will destroy their image of a strong person. “If you have managed to realize and formulate the inner need for attention, care, it is important to take a step and demonstrate it to your loved ones,” says Elena Vinogradova. - You can start with a simple request, while voicing your feelings: “I feel so sad today, could you hug me?"," I have a difficult situation, I would like to talk to you, consult". Psychoanalyst Irina Romanova advises: “Try also to devote more time to other people yourself - in this way you can feel that it is actually pleasant, which means that being an object of attention is a natural state. After all, man is a living being, and indifference is against his nature.
Stop being pessimistic all the time
If you constantly complain about someone, or if you had a bad day at work and you whine about it, then your girlfriend will want to run away from you. Nobody wants to be with a whiner. Even guys. So, instead of playing the victim, try not to spill everything out and try to work things out.
Being a man means solving problems and finding solutions. You still have to look for ways out of different life situations, as problems will not be solved by themselves. So take care of yourself and don't try to complain all the time.
"But she's complaining why I can't?», - you ask.
Firstly, it is unlikely that you are very happy to listen to someone else's whining, even if its "author" is your beloved girl. sooner or later you will get tired of her behavior too. And secondly, she wants to see a strong man next to her, and not a whiner who is not able to protect her from any life troubles. In addition, being in a pair, we develop our own pattern of behavior, even unconsciously inherit each other. And if you act like a pessimist all the time, this attitude will soon be transferred to the girl. And as a result, nothing good will come of it. Therefore, analyze your behavior in order to prevent a similar outcome. A separate article can help with this, in which there are other tips aimed at overcoming the crisis and saving relationships.
Diagnostics of the energy field of the performer
During a love spell, there is a powerful effect on the natural energy-information field of a person. This can be compared with reprogramming: some of the settings are replaced, new bindings appear.
Since this is a mutual connection, not only the object of sympathy, but also the customer herself can feel the symptoms.
Indirectly determine whether the rite worked, you can by the following factors:
- Cooling feelings for the object of sympathy. This is one of the most noticeable signs. A woman becomes indifferent and thinks about whether she needs this man.
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There is a desire to cancel the action of the rite. After a few days, this completely disappears, the attraction returns, the man also has an interest and mutual passion arises. - Guilt. The conscience begins to torment the customer, there is a desire to share what happened with someone. There may even be pity for the bewitched. Unpleasant sensations must be endured and the secret of divination must be preserved, otherwise the effect of magic will weaken or disappear.
- Minor illnesses. A woman has a malaise, which manifests itself in the form of fever, runny nose, nausea, etc.d. The customer may catch a cold or experience symptoms of poisoning.
- Unpleasant events after a love spell. Until the start of the divination, a woman will have a series of failures. This can be reflected both in small details and in global events. With weak rituals, the customer loses her favorite thing or accidentally finds herself in an awkward situation. Strong rituals are fraught with consequences up to injuries and tragedies.
- Insomnia. A woman may have nightmares. Often performers complain that they wake up in the middle of the night in a cold sweat. Falling asleep is difficult.h. because of painful thoughts and bad health. In the morning, the woman feels tired, she does not manage to rest.
- Feeling of emptiness in the soul. There is a slight apathy and unwillingness to do anything. If possible, global affairs should not be planned at this time. It's better to lie ill in bed. In a couple of days, there will be more vital energy than before divination.
The occurrence of negative symptoms is associated with the peculiarities of the action of a love spell. Immediately after the ceremony, the aura of the customer begins to fight the energy of the man. Because of the reciprocal resistance, there is a desire to quit halfway through. If the woman still managed to win, her condition returns to normal. However, the presence of these signs does not mean that the love spell has begun to act: a man is able to overcome the aura of the performer.
Stop dropping it all the time
This is the other side of what has already been said. If you don't show a girl the respect she deserves, it will completely destroy her feelings of attraction to you over time.
Many so-called "good boys" are too zealous in trying to become "bad boys", which, as men think, is very attractive to women. But if you take it too far, it will lead to exactly the same result - they will lose their attractiveness in front of women. So don't make that mistake.
You must find a middle ground between being subservient and disrespectful to her. Love, appreciate, respect her, give her time. It's really simple and works great even in situations where the relationship is already on the verge of breaking up. Self-control on your part, courtship, helping each other - these are the main principles of successful relationships, which even help save marriages. And you can learn more about them from a separate article on this topic.
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Content
- Video Hamlet by William Shakespeare Act 3 Scene 1 ‖ Tom Hiddleston ‖ The Dragon Book of Verse
- Stop being nice to her all the time
- Stop "cling" to her and show your jealousy
- Reasons for the feeling of presence
- Stop agreeing with her all the time
- The weakest link
- Stop being pessimistic all the time
- Diagnostics of the energy field of the performer
- Video Roses are Red (Craig) DRAMATIC MONOLOGUE
- Stop dropping it all the time
- Video Timothée Chalamet - "Miss Stevens" award winning monologue